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	<title>Comments on: Blending Work and Family: How We Do It</title>
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		<title>By: Gary</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/06/29/blending-work-and-family-how-we-do-it/#comment-715288</link>
		<dc:creator>Gary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 17:46:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have to admit that I think it&#039;s nuts to say that daycare is &#039;for the kids&#039;.  Yes, you found two studies that support your point of view.  That is the crazy thing about &#039;scientific studies&#039;, you can find a study to support ANY point of view.  

What about the myriad studies that have shown the opposite?  The studies that show how kids that don&#039;t have a parent at home are more likely to get into trouble as they grow older, don&#039;t form the right bonds when they are younger, etc.?  You found the studies that were convenient to you and kicked away the others, not to mention years of anecdotal proof that shows that kids raised in daycare are much more prone to having problems.

I sure enjoy this blog but this seems like a shameful post.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to admit that I think it&#8217;s nuts to say that daycare is &#8216;for the kids&#8217;.  Yes, you found two studies that support your point of view.  That is the crazy thing about &#8216;scientific studies&#8217;, you can find a study to support ANY point of view.  </p>
<p>What about the myriad studies that have shown the opposite?  The studies that show how kids that don&#8217;t have a parent at home are more likely to get into trouble as they grow older, don&#8217;t form the right bonds when they are younger, etc.?  You found the studies that were convenient to you and kicked away the others, not to mention years of anecdotal proof that shows that kids raised in daycare are much more prone to having problems.</p>
<p>I sure enjoy this blog but this seems like a shameful post.</p>
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		<title>By: Julia</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/06/29/blending-work-and-family-how-we-do-it/#comment-714935</link>
		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 10:58:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I should as well watch less television. It&#039;s a bad waste of time.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I should as well watch less television. It&#8217;s a bad waste of time.</p>
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		<title>By: lollidandy</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/06/29/blending-work-and-family-how-we-do-it/#comment-713155</link>
		<dc:creator>lollidandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 20:12:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great post Trent, thank you! What is your 
advice on paying bills? Like payment methods?
I&#039;m also curious about the timing of bill payments.
Like should they be divided between paychecks? Or 
paid when they arrive? Both of these issues are  
an ongoing debate in my home.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post Trent, thank you! What is your<br />
advice on paying bills? Like payment methods?<br />
I&#8217;m also curious about the timing of bill payments.<br />
Like should they be divided between paychecks? Or<br />
paid when they arrive? Both of these issues are<br />
an ongoing debate in my home.</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin@OutOfYourRut</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kevin@OutOfYourRut</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 20:07:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To echo MLR (#9), the key is that you love what you do.  That has to lower your stress level a notch or two, or three, or...

Most people work at jobs they either don&#039;t like or wouldn&#039;t be doing if there were more desireable alternatives.  When things go wrong, as they will even when you love what you do, the stress is magnified.  Add to that the fact that so many jobs aren&#039;t doable in the time alotted, due to competition, technology, layoffs, etc.

When you love what you do you feel energetic and refreshed, even when you&#039;re super busy, so you can accomplish so much more.  Plus I think you don&#039;t have that looming pressure to retire, which is really the ultimate escape hatch, the &quot;somewhere over the rainbow&quot; we work toward.  When you love what you do, you&#039;re already there.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To echo MLR (#9), the key is that you love what you do.  That has to lower your stress level a notch or two, or three, or&#8230;</p>
<p>Most people work at jobs they either don&#8217;t like or wouldn&#8217;t be doing if there were more desireable alternatives.  When things go wrong, as they will even when you love what you do, the stress is magnified.  Add to that the fact that so many jobs aren&#8217;t doable in the time alotted, due to competition, technology, layoffs, etc.</p>
<p>When you love what you do you feel energetic and refreshed, even when you&#8217;re super busy, so you can accomplish so much more.  Plus I think you don&#8217;t have that looming pressure to retire, which is really the ultimate escape hatch, the &#8220;somewhere over the rainbow&#8221; we work toward.  When you love what you do, you&#8217;re already there.</p>
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		<title>By: tammy</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/06/29/blending-work-and-family-how-we-do-it/#comment-713080</link>
		<dc:creator>tammy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 17:16:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#039;s been a long time since I had kids at home (mine are 22 and 30) but I&#039;ve not given up multitasking. Making velvet bags for my ETSY store while watching PBS (Inspector Poirot rocks), and constanting writing notes for my blogs while doing other things is a great way to stay on top of things. I SO admire people who spend quality time with their children - kudos to you Trent]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s been a long time since I had kids at home (mine are 22 and 30) but I&#8217;ve not given up multitasking. Making velvet bags for my ETSY store while watching PBS (Inspector Poirot rocks), and constanting writing notes for my blogs while doing other things is a great way to stay on top of things. I SO admire people who spend quality time with their children &#8211; kudos to you Trent</p>
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		<title>By: russds</title>
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		<dc:creator>russds</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 15:02:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[love the ideas of mending activities together...cleaning with the kids is great.  there are definitely ways to maximize time with a little creativity and patience.  Turning &#039;off&#039; is great.  it does take active work and focus to turn on work and off work mindset.  i find often that when i get into something work wise, it&#039;s hard to break out of it...and i need to work hard when it is time to go, or time to turn off, and go to family mode, or some other mode.  it takes work.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>love the ideas of mending activities together&#8230;cleaning with the kids is great.  there are definitely ways to maximize time with a little creativity and patience.  Turning &#8216;off&#8217; is great.  it does take active work and focus to turn on work and off work mindset.  i find often that when i get into something work wise, it&#8217;s hard to break out of it&#8230;and i need to work hard when it is time to go, or time to turn off, and go to family mode, or some other mode.  it takes work.</p>
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		<title>By: t</title>
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		<dc:creator>t</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 14:44:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you thought about putting up several posts on the board games you play?  

Dominion is a great game!  I enjoy both versions (online and offline).]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you thought about putting up several posts on the board games you play?  </p>
<p>Dominion is a great game!  I enjoy both versions (online and offline).</p>
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		<title>By: artparent</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/06/29/blending-work-and-family-how-we-do-it/#comment-712778</link>
		<dc:creator>artparent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 09:18:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[shucks, i wish you were a homeschooler! i&#039;d love to hear your advice on balancing working from home when you&#039;ve got children around more than you do!

*]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>shucks, i wish you were a homeschooler! i&#8217;d love to hear your advice on balancing working from home when you&#8217;ve got children around more than you do!</p>
<p>*</p>
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		<title>By: trevor</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/06/29/blending-work-and-family-how-we-do-it/#comment-712725</link>
		<dc:creator>trevor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 07:56:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think that it is a good idea to balance, work and home life.  I work from home anyway, so I do have to set time aside like you and make sure I stick to it.  I have two children and they understand when it is work time and fun time.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that it is a good idea to balance, work and home life.  I work from home anyway, so I do have to set time aside like you and make sure I stick to it.  I have two children and they understand when it is work time and fun time.</p>
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		<title>By: MLR</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/06/29/blending-work-and-family-how-we-do-it/#comment-712530</link>
		<dc:creator>MLR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 04:49:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For me, at least, the main takeaway is that if you love what you do for a living, then the line between work and play is thin.

And could you ask for anything more?

I&#039;m at that point with my normal job. I&#039;ll often times fire up my work email and just make sure everything is running smoothly because I love my work! :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For me, at least, the main takeaway is that if you love what you do for a living, then the line between work and play is thin.</p>
<p>And could you ask for anything more?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m at that point with my normal job. I&#8217;ll often times fire up my work email and just make sure everything is running smoothly because I love my work! :)</p>
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		<title>By: Gabriel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gabriel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 02:34:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This sounds idyllic for your children - and for you. It reminds me a great deal of my childhood, and every day I&#039;m seeing the benefits I received from my parents and upbringing. Great job!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This sounds idyllic for your children &#8211; and for you. It reminds me a great deal of my childhood, and every day I&#8217;m seeing the benefits I received from my parents and upbringing. Great job!</p>
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		<title>By: ObliviousInvestor</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/06/29/blending-work-and-family-how-we-do-it/#comment-712238</link>
		<dc:creator>ObliviousInvestor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 21:19:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;and our three year old loves stirring cookie batter.&quot;

...who doesn&#039;t? :D]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;and our three year old loves stirring cookie batter.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8230;who doesn&#8217;t? :D</p>
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		<title>By: Lenetta @ Nettacow</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/06/29/blending-work-and-family-how-we-do-it/#comment-712235</link>
		<dc:creator>Lenetta @ Nettacow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 21:17:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I enjoyed this post, Trent.  Thanks!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I enjoyed this post, Trent.  Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: Studenomist</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/06/29/blending-work-and-family-how-we-do-it/#comment-712220</link>
		<dc:creator>Studenomist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 21:04:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My personal tip is if you have something you want to do then wake up a bit earlier before anyone else. I love to write articles for my blog. Unfortunately during the school year I also work full time and I have a girlfriend. As a result I have really embraced waking up earlier do write for my blog.

Another thing that helps me is multi-tasking. I have a lot of time in my day where I am pretty much idle (on the bus, in between classes) and this is where I try to get something productive done. 

Brainstorming has become a large part of my life. Whenever I think of a blog post I immediately pull out my iphone and start typing away. My girlfriend gets annoyed at times but she knows that this is what I love doing.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My personal tip is if you have something you want to do then wake up a bit earlier before anyone else. I love to write articles for my blog. Unfortunately during the school year I also work full time and I have a girlfriend. As a result I have really embraced waking up earlier do write for my blog.</p>
<p>Another thing that helps me is multi-tasking. I have a lot of time in my day where I am pretty much idle (on the bus, in between classes) and this is where I try to get something productive done. </p>
<p>Brainstorming has become a large part of my life. Whenever I think of a blog post I immediately pull out my iphone and start typing away. My girlfriend gets annoyed at times but she knows that this is what I love doing.</p>
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		<title>By: EngineerMom</title>
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		<dc:creator>EngineerMom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 21:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Trent - I would love to see you review &quot;Why Work Sucks and How to Fix It: No Schedules, No Meetings, No Joke--the Simple Change That Can Make Your Job Terrific&quot;.  One of the main tenets of the book - measuring job success/progress by tasks accomplished rather than hours spent - seems to be something you have discovered on your own and incorporated into your job.  It would be interesting to see you critique a book that is intended to apply the same theory to an office environment.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trent &#8211; I would love to see you review &#8220;Why Work Sucks and How to Fix It: No Schedules, No Meetings, No Joke&#8211;the Simple Change That Can Make Your Job Terrific&#8221;.  One of the main tenets of the book &#8211; measuring job success/progress by tasks accomplished rather than hours spent &#8211; seems to be something you have discovered on your own and incorporated into your job.  It would be interesting to see you critique a book that is intended to apply the same theory to an office environment.</p>
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		<title>By: ryan</title>
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		<dc:creator>ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 20:58:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[wow trent, you just described exactly how i would love me life to be someday (once i&#039;m done with grad school, etc).  thanks for the inspiration to know it can be done.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow trent, you just described exactly how i would love me life to be someday (once i&#8217;m done with grad school, etc).  thanks for the inspiration to know it can be done.</p>
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		<title>By: liv</title>
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		<dc:creator>liv</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 20:25:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I LOVE TRUE BLOOD :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I LOVE TRUE BLOOD :)</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 20:05:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ooh, double-header!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ooh, double-header!</p>
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