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		<title>By: DDFD at DivorcedDadFrugalDad</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-767857</link>
		<dc:creator>DDFD at DivorcedDadFrugalDad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 17:18:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have lived in Manhattan (that&#039;s NY City for you country folks) and now I live surrounded by wildlife preserves and horse farms (that&#039;s the sticks for you city slickers), and I can certify no country or rural bias on this site.  Your reader has other issues . . .]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have lived in Manhattan (that&#8217;s NY City for you country folks) and now I live surrounded by wildlife preserves and horse farms (that&#8217;s the sticks for you city slickers), and I can certify no country or rural bias on this site.  Your reader has other issues . . .</p>
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		<title>By: Caroline</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-762761</link>
		<dc:creator>Caroline</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:38:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ha! I learn a lot from your blog and find much common ground despite some huge differences in lifestyle.  Plus I pass on things that don&#039;t apply to me to people than can use the tips!  Thank you for writing thoughtful posts.  ~a city girl]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha! I learn a lot from your blog and find much common ground despite some huge differences in lifestyle.  Plus I pass on things that don&#8217;t apply to me to people than can use the tips!  Thank you for writing thoughtful posts.  ~a city girl</p>
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		<title>By: Tuimeltje</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-762179</link>
		<dc:creator>Tuimeltje</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 12:53:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m Dutch, single, childless, a student, live in a very urban area in a balcony-less appartment, and yet I get a lot of useful info from your blog and the other (overwhelmingly U.S., or at least American-based) personal finance blogs I read. 
Sure, certain more local things (tax-related, pension schemes, that sort of thing) are not that relevant to me, but I can just skip those. Or read them anyway and learn how things work elsewhere in the world.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m Dutch, single, childless, a student, live in a very urban area in a balcony-less appartment, and yet I get a lot of useful info from your blog and the other (overwhelmingly U.S., or at least American-based) personal finance blogs I read.<br />
Sure, certain more local things (tax-related, pension schemes, that sort of thing) are not that relevant to me, but I can just skip those. Or read them anyway and learn how things work elsewhere in the world.</p>
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		<title>By: Corporate Barbarian</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-761506</link>
		<dc:creator>Corporate Barbarian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 19:08:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I live in the suburbs, and I find plenty of common ground in your posts.  I never thought that geography would have any impact given the medium (the internet), but I guess that I was mistaken.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I live in the suburbs, and I find plenty of common ground in your posts.  I never thought that geography would have any impact given the medium (the internet), but I guess that I was mistaken.</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin@OutOfYourRut</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-761453</link>
		<dc:creator>Kevin@OutOfYourRut</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 17:03:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I can appreciate that people living in high cost cities may not see the value of this or so many other thrift centered blogs.  I used to live in a high cost area, and there is most definately a different way of seeing things. 

It&#039;s true as the post says that anyone can make changes in any situation, but the options for being frugal are much more limited in high cost areas.  

You can cut back SOME, but the basic problem is that the high cost of everything is built into everything, like a giant catch 22.  If housing prices and property taxes are high throughout a region, there aren&#039;t really any low cost housing options.  The same will be true of clothing, car repairs, insurance, child care, entertainment--the general high cost of operating in the area is reflected in everything.  

It may be that the most effective thing you can do if you live in such an area is to move out.  But that&#039;s asking more of people than they may be prepared to do.  

Living in a lower cost city, there are always cheaper options for what you need or want to do.  But in high cost areas, the options do tend to be more of a challenge.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can appreciate that people living in high cost cities may not see the value of this or so many other thrift centered blogs.  I used to live in a high cost area, and there is most definately a different way of seeing things. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s true as the post says that anyone can make changes in any situation, but the options for being frugal are much more limited in high cost areas.  </p>
<p>You can cut back SOME, but the basic problem is that the high cost of everything is built into everything, like a giant catch 22.  If housing prices and property taxes are high throughout a region, there aren&#8217;t really any low cost housing options.  The same will be true of clothing, car repairs, insurance, child care, entertainment&#8211;the general high cost of operating in the area is reflected in everything.  </p>
<p>It may be that the most effective thing you can do if you live in such an area is to move out.  But that&#8217;s asking more of people than they may be prepared to do.  </p>
<p>Living in a lower cost city, there are always cheaper options for what you need or want to do.  But in high cost areas, the options do tend to be more of a challenge.</p>
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		<title>By: David/Yourfinances101</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-761030</link>
		<dc:creator>David/Yourfinances101</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 23:37:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If one is trying to get out of debt, I think that for sure the same principles will work for a &quot;city&quot; person as well as a &quot;rural&quot; person.  What works is what works and debt is debt, whether you&#039;re surrounded by cars and tall buildings or cows and farmland...

I have learned a great deal from this blog and it never even occurred to me where you live Trent.

And I am a city boy!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If one is trying to get out of debt, I think that for sure the same principles will work for a &#8220;city&#8221; person as well as a &#8220;rural&#8221; person.  What works is what works and debt is debt, whether you&#8217;re surrounded by cars and tall buildings or cows and farmland&#8230;</p>
<p>I have learned a great deal from this blog and it never even occurred to me where you live Trent.</p>
<p>And I am a city boy!</p>
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		<title>By: Diana</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-760889</link>
		<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 21:04:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sounds silly to me - there are some things unique to urban life, like mass transit - that merit discussion. That said, ANYONE can garden. I live in an apartment, in a very urban part of Minneapolis. I am at the moment looking into small, affordable ways to grown an indoor garden in the winter, and I have local friends who own property who share the bounty of their gardens with me as a way of saving us all money and celebrating the goods of the earth.

Silly people, grow an herb!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sounds silly to me &#8211; there are some things unique to urban life, like mass transit &#8211; that merit discussion. That said, ANYONE can garden. I live in an apartment, in a very urban part of Minneapolis. I am at the moment looking into small, affordable ways to grown an indoor garden in the winter, and I have local friends who own property who share the bounty of their gardens with me as a way of saving us all money and celebrating the goods of the earth.</p>
<p>Silly people, grow an herb!</p>
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		<title>By: Juli</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-760837</link>
		<dc:creator>Juli</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 19:57:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow Trent, I guess I didn&#039;t realize you lived in a rural area.  Your blog is really one of my favorites!  I&#039;m engaged, live in a suburb, and have lived in various locations in Chicago for about 10 years before that.

I learn a LOT from you and the other commentators on this blog, and am surprised that someone living in a city would not find a lot of value.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow Trent, I guess I didn&#8217;t realize you lived in a rural area.  Your blog is really one of my favorites!  I&#8217;m engaged, live in a suburb, and have lived in various locations in Chicago for about 10 years before that.</p>
<p>I learn a LOT from you and the other commentators on this blog, and am surprised that someone living in a city would not find a lot of value.</p>
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		<title>By: Finola Prescott</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-760724</link>
		<dc:creator>Finola Prescott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 15:03:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just chiming in from a very different cultural perspective - that of a white woman living in the Caribbean (not born here, but lived all my life here), neither rural nor city dweller. 

Much of what&#039;s said here and elsewhere may not apply directly to me, but I really don&#039;t find it that much of a stretch to re-interpret it by taking core concepts and seeing what in my situation could replace the things that don&#039;t apply. Doesn&#039;t always work, but it&#039;s this diversity of experience and opinion that allows me to find solutions where I probably otherwise would not have if I kept &#039;to my own&#039;. 

I write a blog about trying to live a productive life as a creative self employed person - I write with a Caribbean perspective, but by no means does that make all of what I say irrelevant to any creative person, anywhere. Even when I &#039;rant&#039; about local situations, my overseas, non-Caribbean readers are often the ones who comment positively on the insight! 

I love the blogworld for just this - the ability to dip into perspectives that we otherwise may never have been able to benefit from.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just chiming in from a very different cultural perspective &#8211; that of a white woman living in the Caribbean (not born here, but lived all my life here), neither rural nor city dweller. </p>
<p>Much of what&#8217;s said here and elsewhere may not apply directly to me, but I really don&#8217;t find it that much of a stretch to re-interpret it by taking core concepts and seeing what in my situation could replace the things that don&#8217;t apply. Doesn&#8217;t always work, but it&#8217;s this diversity of experience and opinion that allows me to find solutions where I probably otherwise would not have if I kept &#8216;to my own&#8217;. </p>
<p>I write a blog about trying to live a productive life as a creative self employed person &#8211; I write with a Caribbean perspective, but by no means does that make all of what I say irrelevant to any creative person, anywhere. Even when I &#8216;rant&#8217; about local situations, my overseas, non-Caribbean readers are often the ones who comment positively on the insight! </p>
<p>I love the blogworld for just this &#8211; the ability to dip into perspectives that we otherwise may never have been able to benefit from.</p>
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		<title>By: kn</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-760709</link>
		<dc:creator>kn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 14:24:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m a Boston resident, but I read both your blog and JD&#039;s GRS quite often. True, life in Boston is quite different from life in Iowa or Oregon, but I&#039;ve still learned a ton of useful information from each of you, and you&#039;ve made me think about city life in different ways. There are a few posts that don&#039;t apply to me at all (mostly involving car ownership, as I don&#039;t have a car and don&#039;t need one in Boston), but I just skip those and move on with my day.

I guess all I want to say is - Thanks. For this city reader, the cultural divide is not so great that it makes your blog less worthy of my time.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a Boston resident, but I read both your blog and JD&#8217;s GRS quite often. True, life in Boston is quite different from life in Iowa or Oregon, but I&#8217;ve still learned a ton of useful information from each of you, and you&#8217;ve made me think about city life in different ways. There are a few posts that don&#8217;t apply to me at all (mostly involving car ownership, as I don&#8217;t have a car and don&#8217;t need one in Boston), but I just skip those and move on with my day.</p>
<p>I guess all I want to say is &#8211; Thanks. For this city reader, the cultural divide is not so great that it makes your blog less worthy of my time.</p>
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		<title>By: littlepitcher</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-760658</link>
		<dc:creator>littlepitcher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 12:15:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Once lived in a city and had never gardened in my life.  A frugality article in a magazine suggested container gardening and I had a weed-filled flowerbox outside.  So...I gardened.  

I hated home ec in hs and swore I&#039;d never sew.  A full twenty years later,my sofa needed a slipcover and the local thrift store had a sewing machine for $20.  Learning never is wasted (although I&#039;m still waiting, after nearly 40 years, to try out that algebra?

Write about anything you want to, Trent.  It will help somebody now, and may help someone later down the road.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once lived in a city and had never gardened in my life.  A frugality article in a magazine suggested container gardening and I had a weed-filled flowerbox outside.  So&#8230;I gardened.  </p>
<p>I hated home ec in hs and swore I&#8217;d never sew.  A full twenty years later,my sofa needed a slipcover and the local thrift store had a sewing machine for $20.  Learning never is wasted (although I&#8217;m still waiting, after nearly 40 years, to try out that algebra?</p>
<p>Write about anything you want to, Trent.  It will help somebody now, and may help someone later down the road.</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-760478</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 05:08:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am very appreciative of your attitude that we can all coexist and thrive from interacting with people from other experiences/backgrounds.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am very appreciative of your attitude that we can all coexist and thrive from interacting with people from other experiences/backgrounds.</p>
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		<title>By: Mary</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-760427</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 03:10:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I really liked this post.  I typically only scan for tips and ideas, but I read this one word for word.  You are a good, open-minded writer!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really liked this post.  I typically only scan for tips and ideas, but I read this one word for word.  You are a good, open-minded writer!</p>
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		<title>By: FrugalGal</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-760328</link>
		<dc:creator>FrugalGal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 00:36:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@Frugal Bachelor - I just passed the point where I can no longer afford any preventive or routine medical care.  In other words, need of money is threatening to shorten my life.  Not as much as if I couldn&#039;t afford food, but there it is.

Your silly self-righteousness about trivial points of language did not buy me one doctor visit, nor did it put one bite of food into the mouth of any starving person. 

On the other hand, the kind of detailed frugality advice Trent and other folks like Amy Dacyczyn give is what makes it possible for many of us to avoid outright beggary. And as a bonus, they don&#039;t go around denouncing people.  So put a sock in it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Frugal Bachelor &#8211; I just passed the point where I can no longer afford any preventive or routine medical care.  In other words, need of money is threatening to shorten my life.  Not as much as if I couldn&#8217;t afford food, but there it is.</p>
<p>Your silly self-righteousness about trivial points of language did not buy me one doctor visit, nor did it put one bite of food into the mouth of any starving person. </p>
<p>On the other hand, the kind of detailed frugality advice Trent and other folks like Amy Dacyczyn give is what makes it possible for many of us to avoid outright beggary. And as a bonus, they don&#8217;t go around denouncing people.  So put a sock in it.</p>
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		<title>By: brooke</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-760254</link>
		<dc:creator>brooke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 23:21:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love Auntielle&#039;s comment! Agreed to continue learning and never become &quot;over the hill&quot;!! As for Trent&#039;s post, I come from a very rural town eastern KY, I currently live in an mid-size city in upstate NY, and I am moving to NYC in the upcoming weeks. I find your tips useful in all living situations and wish I had applied them earlier. My rent is about to double when I move to the city, and though I already apply many PF tacticis, I keep reading for inspiration and motivation as my cost of living goes up enormously!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love Auntielle&#8217;s comment! Agreed to continue learning and never become &#8220;over the hill&#8221;!! As for Trent&#8217;s post, I come from a very rural town eastern KY, I currently live in an mid-size city in upstate NY, and I am moving to NYC in the upcoming weeks. I find your tips useful in all living situations and wish I had applied them earlier. My rent is about to double when I move to the city, and though I already apply many PF tacticis, I keep reading for inspiration and motivation as my cost of living goes up enormously!!</p>
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		<title>By: Emily @ Under$1000PerMonth</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-760250</link>
		<dc:creator>Emily @ Under$1000PerMonth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 23:17:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A lot of what can be learned is in principals, not practical tips. The psychology of personal finance is what will ultimately change behavior and you certainly capture that in your posts.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of what can be learned is in principals, not practical tips. The psychology of personal finance is what will ultimately change behavior and you certainly capture that in your posts.</p>
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		<title>By: IRG</title>
		<link>http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2009/08/22/cultural-divides/#comment-760177</link>
		<dc:creator>IRG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 21:45:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a big city dweller, it&#039;s true that some of your articles have little relevance.

But that&#039;s the case with any blog. Not every article will resonate.

I read The Simple Dollar because I like to hear how you think, Trent, your perspective. Doesn&#039;t matter if I agree or disagree, I like hearing how someone like you &quot;thinks&quot; their way through to choices and behavior. And I like your stories.

Your work is not superficial, or auto pilot and it always comes across with your voice. That&#039;s what I look for in a blog.

Plus, you have an open mind and always accept that your way is not everyone&#039;s way. It&#039;s like you make a meal, you share it. Some will enjoy it, some will not. It&#039;s the thought that counts.

FYI: Very few so-called city blogs hit all the city dwellers. If you live in NYC, there are many, many different circumstances (professionally, financially, culturally) and lifestyles. No single blog hits all the spots.

And although I do not have children and am not married, I read blogs about children, about raising them and about married people in the burbs. Why? Cause I do want to hear what those people think and feel and are going thru. How can you care about people and NOT want to learn more about their daily lives?

What&#039;s amazing to me is how many people have next to no interest in how we single, not young, not sex in the city-type, city dwellers live. I know far more about my suburban/country friends lifestyles and interests and activities. They know next to nothing about mine, because they&#039;re so wrapped up in their own lives.

It&#039;s always important to keep open to how everyone else lives. One of the best things about where I live is the diversity. In any given day, I can meet people from around the world and learn about THEIR lives. It&#039;s one of the many reasons I live here. I don&#039;t want to live in a community where everyone is alike--no matter what the similarities are. (Don&#039;t ever have to worry about that. My apartment building alone is a very global mix by geography, lifestyle, income, etc. And I&#039;m glad about that. 

sure, people tend to hang with people &quot;like&quot; them or those who share at least some of their interests. But life is such that you meet people, care about them and then your lives diverge. Do you stop caring or relating? Sometimes, you do. 

But you can retain connections by being open to learning about the changes and differences. Blogs can be a great way to do that.

Plus, you rarely learn from people who think the same as you do.

If you really want to keep learning, it&#039;s all about finding those &quot;A Ha!&quot; moments wherever they surface.

Sometimes, I learn as much, if not more, from the comments, as the original article. Which again proves you&#039;re doing a &quot;good thing.&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a big city dweller, it&#8217;s true that some of your articles have little relevance.</p>
<p>But that&#8217;s the case with any blog. Not every article will resonate.</p>
<p>I read The Simple Dollar because I like to hear how you think, Trent, your perspective. Doesn&#8217;t matter if I agree or disagree, I like hearing how someone like you &#8220;thinks&#8221; their way through to choices and behavior. And I like your stories.</p>
<p>Your work is not superficial, or auto pilot and it always comes across with your voice. That&#8217;s what I look for in a blog.</p>
<p>Plus, you have an open mind and always accept that your way is not everyone&#8217;s way. It&#8217;s like you make a meal, you share it. Some will enjoy it, some will not. It&#8217;s the thought that counts.</p>
<p>FYI: Very few so-called city blogs hit all the city dwellers. If you live in NYC, there are many, many different circumstances (professionally, financially, culturally) and lifestyles. No single blog hits all the spots.</p>
<p>And although I do not have children and am not married, I read blogs about children, about raising them and about married people in the burbs. Why? Cause I do want to hear what those people think and feel and are going thru. How can you care about people and NOT want to learn more about their daily lives?</p>
<p>What&#8217;s amazing to me is how many people have next to no interest in how we single, not young, not sex in the city-type, city dwellers live. I know far more about my suburban/country friends lifestyles and interests and activities. They know next to nothing about mine, because they&#8217;re so wrapped up in their own lives.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s always important to keep open to how everyone else lives. One of the best things about where I live is the diversity. In any given day, I can meet people from around the world and learn about THEIR lives. It&#8217;s one of the many reasons I live here. I don&#8217;t want to live in a community where everyone is alike&#8211;no matter what the similarities are. (Don&#8217;t ever have to worry about that. My apartment building alone is a very global mix by geography, lifestyle, income, etc. And I&#8217;m glad about that. </p>
<p>sure, people tend to hang with people &#8220;like&#8221; them or those who share at least some of their interests. But life is such that you meet people, care about them and then your lives diverge. Do you stop caring or relating? Sometimes, you do. </p>
<p>But you can retain connections by being open to learning about the changes and differences. Blogs can be a great way to do that.</p>
<p>Plus, you rarely learn from people who think the same as you do.</p>
<p>If you really want to keep learning, it&#8217;s all about finding those &#8220;A Ha!&#8221; moments wherever they surface.</p>
<p>Sometimes, I learn as much, if not more, from the comments, as the original article. Which again proves you&#8217;re doing a &#8220;good thing.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: JS Dixon</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 20:07:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I really like how you highlight on the similarities between different situations in this article.  I&#039;ve lived in both rural and major city areas, and there are a ton of things that we can learn from each other, and city or not, even an apartment can have a box garden to cut back food costs.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really like how you highlight on the similarities between different situations in this article.  I&#8217;ve lived in both rural and major city areas, and there are a ton of things that we can learn from each other, and city or not, even an apartment can have a box garden to cut back food costs.</p>
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		<title>By: spaces</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 19:54:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[IME -- living in areas as small as 10,000 and as big as 4 million -- there&#039;s not that big a divide between smaller cities and bigger cities, if both cities are the metropolitan center of their geographic area and you live reasonably close to the services that are available.  I was surprised to come to this conclusion.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>IME &#8212; living in areas as small as 10,000 and as big as 4 million &#8212; there&#8217;s not that big a divide between smaller cities and bigger cities, if both cities are the metropolitan center of their geographic area and you live reasonably close to the services that are available.  I was surprised to come to this conclusion.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 19:36:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great post!
Also: I love reading your blog. I&#039;m always able to glean a little bit of wisdom and insight from all the posts...even the gardening ones.

You *never* know for certain where your life will go or how it will turn out in the future. Those big-city folks might very well find themselves living in a rural farmhouse one day, and then they&#039;ll regret not paying more attention to your gardening posts!  ;)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post!<br />
Also: I love reading your blog. I&#8217;m always able to glean a little bit of wisdom and insight from all the posts&#8230;even the gardening ones.</p>
<p>You *never* know for certain where your life will go or how it will turn out in the future. Those big-city folks might very well find themselves living in a rural farmhouse one day, and then they&#8217;ll regret not paying more attention to your gardening posts!  ;)</p>
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