Comments on: Rule #11: Find and Work Toward Your True Passions.

By: prufock

prufock — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 17:12:09 +0000

To paraphrase Michael Bolton: “if everyone followed that advice there would be no janitors, because no one would clean shit up if they were following their passion.”

There have to be SOME people doing jobs that no one else wants to do. Ideally, we would all love our work, but I don’t think it’s necessarily realistic.

By: DDFD at Defensive-Entrepreneurship.com

DDFD at Defensive-Entrepreneurship.com — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 17:56:14 +0000

Many people would be well served to use the day job to pay the bills and build a business (Defensive Entrepreneurship) doing what they like or love . . . the financial rewards will be the cherry on the cake of personal satisfaction.

By: Mat Sullivan

Mat Sullivan — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 03:15:25 +0000

Trent,

This post has had a big impact on me. My father passed away in July and I have felt my life has been “reset”. It is difficult to explain, but finding my passion I believe will be a part of my over all healing process. Thanks, Matt Sullivan

By: Alissa

Alissa — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 15:15:56 +0000

Trent, I’m enjoying your blog daily through my RSS reader and I seem to nearly always agree with you, except today, where you said “If you have patience, hang out your shingle and volunteer to teach your passion to others. This is a great avenue for a passionate musician.”

Now, maybe you mean an amateur musician – someone who does music only as a hobby – but for me, a professional musician, this is a dangerous idea. Where does one whose income relies on performing and teaching music draw the line? How can you say to person X that you will charge them $20+ an hour and turn around and offer free services to person Y? It’s not right to discern simply by easy or difficult the music is, because it took 15-20 years of lessons and practicing just to gain the skills to be able to play either piece.

For me, it’s the only service I can offer and I need to be careful not to discredit the importance of my skill (I play piano, flute, I sing and conduct). I’ve been asked to play for over 50 weddings, many for my own friends, and I had to really struggle to admit that I should still ask for compensation in these situations – because it is my career. Of course there are some cases where I decide to play gratis (usually for a family member) or offer a very nice discount (usually for a *very* good friend). But if I played free for any friend, I’d be caught in a spiral of expected volunteerism. For me, the only place I sometimes volunteer my musical skills for free is for small musical offerings in my church, as a way of giving back to my church.

I’m sorry to write so much in my comment, but I was very surprised to hear this comment come from you!!! A musician’s career is still a career, and since we’re more likely to struggle, we should be very careful not to get caught up in giving our life’s work away for free. Thank you for taking the time to read my thoughts on this!

By: Serena Simmons

Serena Simmons — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 11:00:20 +0000

Everyone should have a passion whether it generates income or not. When you love to do something it adds something to your life.

By: Monevator

Monevator — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 10:03:01 +0000

I agree it’s an amazing feeling jumping in to do something for fun every day.

I do my money and investing blog for this.

But I agree with the comment about how blogging is a really hard way to make money.

I do my money and investing blog DESPITE this.

My next goal is to turn one of my other passions/interests into something that doesn’t involve a computer screen. I’d love to use my hands, and other senses more.

By: Beverly D

Beverly D — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 19:41:56 +0000

Gwen, I think you discovered your goal, which is to help people manage disasters. The means to do that is first to have a nursing degree, then build on that. I have been a nurse for 40 years, and am now a Nurse Practitioner, but at one point I thought I wanted to be a math teacher. I went back to school, studied math, and then discovered that I could not ABIDE the culture of middle and high school education. I’ve never been unhappy with the various paths my nursing degrees have taken me.

By: Britt

Britt — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 19:30:56 +0000

A couple of good books to read are 48 Days to the Work You Love and No More Mondays, both by Dan Miller. Excellent reads that get you thinking.
George, I’m in your same situation. But, making a dying 5 days a week so that you can enjoy 2 days off, is no way to live 40 years of your life. I’m finding out that finding your passion is way more than discovering what you’re interested in…it takes a commitment to really finding out who you are in a lot of other areas. Hope these books can help someone.

By: Gwen

Gwen — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 19:00:46 +0000

Trent, I tried going through your 31 Days to Fix Your Finances a while ago and I got stuck on day 2 which is about defining goals. I have been thinking about it long and hard and I realized that even though my bachelor’s degree was in public health, what I really want to do is be a nurse and work with the American Red Cross helping people prepare for and respond to disasters. I learned about this in my public health courses too of course, but it took some soul searching to realize that my real passion would lie in being involved in the medical field. I am now on the path to taking some community college courses to fulfill some prerequisites and then going back to school. Finding your true passions takes a lot of introspection and time. Thanks for getting me started.

By: George

George — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 18:02:56 +0000

Let’s see, I could be a fishing guide, but I don’t like the meager income to put up with people’s BS. I could farm, but that might not leave me enough free time to enjoy other pursuits. I could do photography and starve. I could race and starve and not have a home to live in.

Hmm, guess I’ll continue working at a relatively high-paying computer job so I can have MORE time off later and be secure.

By: chacha1

chacha1 — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 17:52:43 +0000

Perhaps not everyone does have a passion, but more likely they haven’t been in the way of discovering it yet. I was competent at a lot of things and making a good (though boring) living doing one of them, but at 32 I discovered (by chance, not by madly chasing every tangential interest) my passion was ballroom dancing.

Now I’m a champion amateur competitor, certified instructor and teaching on the side while I continue my day job. Let me tell you, the day job is a lot less confining now that I have dance in my life.

Re: starting a blog: it’s not necessarily about income – could be about articulating your interests and having a way for people to learn about you and see if they’re interested in working with you.

By: Emily @ Under$1000PerMonth

Emily @ Under$1000PerMonth — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 17:46:05 +0000

This post made me smile. Are we seeking happiness, or money in hope that happiness will follow? This got it the right way around.

By: Marsha

Marsha — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 16:57:56 +0000

I question the underlying premise, that is, that everyone has a “passion.” And if the response is that a person without a passion just hasn’t worked hard enough to find it, that’s just circular reasoning.

That said, for people who do have a passion, I wish them all the luck and joy pursuing it.

By: michelle

michelle — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 15:08:14 +0000

What if your passion is a seemingly unappreciated part of a whole, dying industry? I was a page designer at a daily newspaper until recently, when I took another job in a safer industry making a little more money (because newspapers do tend to underpay their employees when they don’t have to). These days it’s a struggle to go to work every day, when, back then, it was never a struggle. I was passionate, dedicated, always looked for ways to learn new things. Now, I just look forward to weekends. I want to get back in to newspapers, but obviously they’re not doing so well.

By: jon

jon — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 14:48:08 +0000

Why is ‘start a blog’ always the first item on everyone’s list for making more income? Placing ads from the very beginning would mean going with something like AdSense, which even Trent has spoken his dislike for. Why recommend something you don’t use yourself?
Most blogs don’t earn hardly any money, especially considering the time invested in them. I always know when someone posts about ‘easy’ ways to earn extra income that ‘start a blog’ will be first on the list.

By: Charley Forness

Charley Forness — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 14:35:34 +0000

I agree with the general theme of the post. If you have to work for money, you may as well be passionate about your work, even if it’s only a part time income. I think artists (writers, musicians, painters, photographers etc.) fall into this category. People don’t go into artistic careers for practical reasons. They do it because they are passionate about it.

I became a project manager for practical reasons, not because I am passionate about it, but I indulge my passions of writing and music performance and make a few hundred dollars on the side every month.

What I think I may disagree with is points 4 and 5. You can easily spread yourself too thin by indulging every whim that you find yourself interested in. I think there has to be a cut off point, for managing life sanely, to say, I have enough on my plate, I should be happy with that.

I would rather side with, remove the unimportant so that you can focus on the important. It might be nice to grow my own tomatoes, but to manage a whole garden of various vegetables may be too much time and would take away from my other passions.

That’s my two cents,
-Charley

By: Steven

Steven — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 14:28:44 +0000

I think the way Jim over at Bargaineering put it really connected to how I feel.

Do you live to work or work to live?

http://www.bargaineering.com/articles/work-to-live-or-live-to-work.html

By: Kevin@OutOfYourRut

Kevin@OutOfYourRut — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 14:15:33 +0000

This is really what people should be pursuing, as opposed to money. We have it all backward.

Money is seen as a way to attain a certain lifestyle, but what if you could attain that lifestyle without having money? The whole game would change. The lifestyle would produce the money, rather than relying on money to produce the lifestyle. That’s radical!

It’s also a life well lived!

By: John

John — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 14:08:41 +0000

“If it dries up, don’t push it.”

How is this compatible with “pushing through the dip” a la Seth Godin?