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	<title>Comments on: 15 Ways to Be a Leader Today &#8211; or Any Day</title>
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		<title>By: Nimmy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nimmy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 01:19:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>management and leadership *are* different...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>management and leadership *are* different&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Nimmy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nimmy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 01:16:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I often hear or read that it&#039;s better to preface an honest, critical evaluation with a compliment. However, this was expressly discouraged in management school as it was said to send conflicting  signals. One of those areas where management and leadership is different? Or simply a matter of valuing the relationship rather than the work produced?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I often hear or read that it&#8217;s better to preface an honest, critical evaluation with a compliment. However, this was expressly discouraged in management school as it was said to send conflicting  signals. One of those areas where management and leadership is different? Or simply a matter of valuing the relationship rather than the work produced?</p>
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		<title>By: John DeFlumeri Jr</title>
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		<dc:creator>John DeFlumeri Jr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 21:53:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Being brave is volunteering for the dirty job no one else wants.  It gets you noticed!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being brave is volunteering for the dirty job no one else wants.  It gets you noticed!</p>
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		<title>By: Jo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 20:37:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A lot of people are floating within an environment of weak or confusing leadership. 

Kevin, regarding the above, you hit the head on the nail. And there you have it! In my work situation, I am good about following all but one of those tips, which I will not discuss here, lest I digress. 

Anyways, the problem I&#039;ve seen time and again, regarding leadership is that: a) there is virtually no consistent communication skills betwixt themselves, and b) I swear the leaders way at the top of the food chain tell their store managers to be sure to check all common sense at the door, prior to going inside. 

Steve #5, I regard this as &quot;stepping outside of the box.&quot; There is truly nothing wrong with doing this, as long as the project is done correctly and in a timely manner. Anytime I am given a task, I find a way to do it as efficiently as possible; if I have to do it, then let me do it the way that it&#039;s comfortable for me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of people are floating within an environment of weak or confusing leadership. </p>
<p>Kevin, regarding the above, you hit the head on the nail. And there you have it! In my work situation, I am good about following all but one of those tips, which I will not discuss here, lest I digress. </p>
<p>Anyways, the problem I&#8217;ve seen time and again, regarding leadership is that: a) there is virtually no consistent communication skills betwixt themselves, and b) I swear the leaders way at the top of the food chain tell their store managers to be sure to check all common sense at the door, prior to going inside. </p>
<p>Steve #5, I regard this as &#8220;stepping outside of the box.&#8221; There is truly nothing wrong with doing this, as long as the project is done correctly and in a timely manner. Anytime I am given a task, I find a way to do it as efficiently as possible; if I have to do it, then let me do it the way that it&#8217;s comfortable for me.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 20:04:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Johanna, I step in when nobody wants to do a tedious task IF I can transform the task into an easier or faster problem.  That impresses people.  Otherwise, I like to watch the &quot;ambitious&quot; person bury themselves alive while the rest of us stay in the game for the long haul. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Johanna, I step in when nobody wants to do a tedious task IF I can transform the task into an easier or faster problem.  That impresses people.  Otherwise, I like to watch the &#8220;ambitious&#8221; person bury themselves alive while the rest of us stay in the game for the long haul. :)</p>
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		<title>By: andrej</title>
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		<dc:creator>andrej</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 16:48:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(personal pet peeve vent)
David (#9), management is NOT the same as leadership. The idea that managers are leaders is one of the lies of the cult of management that pervades our society. 

Management and leadership are usually orthogonal activities and sometimes they actually clash. 

Managers who focus more on status than their work aren&#039;t leaders. Hell, most managers who do a wonderful job of management also aren&#039;t leaders.

Anyway...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(personal pet peeve vent)<br />
David (#9), management is NOT the same as leadership. The idea that managers are leaders is one of the lies of the cult of management that pervades our society. </p>
<p>Management and leadership are usually orthogonal activities and sometimes they actually clash. </p>
<p>Managers who focus more on status than their work aren&#8217;t leaders. Hell, most managers who do a wonderful job of management also aren&#8217;t leaders.</p>
<p>Anyway&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Craig Ford</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig Ford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 11:41:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;When your part of a team, take charge.&quot;  
Someone once told me to work as if you were getting paid one pay grade higher.  If you simply fulfill expectations it will be difficult to  increae your circle of influence.  If you work beyond your pay scale it will be noticed by those around you.
You will earn leadership when those around you see you taking initiative.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;When your part of a team, take charge.&#8221;<br />
Someone once told me to work as if you were getting paid one pay grade higher.  If you simply fulfill expectations it will be difficult to  increae your circle of influence.  If you work beyond your pay scale it will be noticed by those around you.<br />
You will earn leadership when those around you see you taking initiative.</p>
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		<title>By: David--Your finances 101</title>
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		<dc:creator>David--Your finances 101</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 10:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Trent,


Your post made minor mention of a point that I think needs emphasis--the need for a title.

I see so  many managers (leaders) out there who are more &quot;into&quot; having the title than they are doing the job.

I have spent the better part of my professional life in management and one of the best things I&#039;ve learned over the years is a line I use with my subordnates all the time.  I tell them that  &quot;Our jobs are almost exactly the same, I just have a little bit more responsibility than you do.&quot;

And I believe those words and I live those words on a daily basis.  A manager willing to get down in the trenches with his subordinates will have their respect forever.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trent,</p>
<p>Your post made minor mention of a point that I think needs emphasis&#8211;the need for a title.</p>
<p>I see so  many managers (leaders) out there who are more &#8220;into&#8221; having the title than they are doing the job.</p>
<p>I have spent the better part of my professional life in management and one of the best things I&#8217;ve learned over the years is a line I use with my subordnates all the time.  I tell them that  &#8220;Our jobs are almost exactly the same, I just have a little bit more responsibility than you do.&#8221;</p>
<p>And I believe those words and I live those words on a daily basis.  A manager willing to get down in the trenches with his subordinates will have their respect forever.</p>
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		<title>By: tentaculistic</title>
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		<dc:creator>tentaculistic</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 02:12:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was struck by that example of the man who wrote down his coworkers&#039; birthdays and their favorite vending snacks, then gave them on their birthdays with a little bow.  That is really something that has frontloaded effort, then very minimal effort day-to-day, with very high impact. And it really is quite thoughtful. I really like that idea.  I wonder how I could go about finding out what people&#039;s birthdays and favorite vending machine items were without being creepy...

My second thought is that your ideas are very good ones, but in moderation. Speaking up at most meetings is a good idea - having to say something at every one, or not being able to shut up makes you look like a narcissist or blowhard.  

And if you&#039;re not careful, you can be manipulated by your coworkers into being the voice of criticism when they don&#039;t have the guts or don&#039;t want to look bad - and while you&#039;re only saying what EVERYone else is saying, you end up with the label as a troublemaker or jerk.  I learned this the hard way in grad shool - I should have known that B-school would be fraught with the kind of people to do sneaky stuff like that. Anyway, I could always be whipped up by hearing everyone complain about something, but not do anything. Turns out I was helping resolve the situation for them, but while they benefited from my speaking up, they left me swinging in the wind looking like a jerk who liked to complain, and pretended they had no problem with the situation.  Nice.  I caught on (slow but not stupid!) finally and learned to shut my mouth, and gosh how weird that people had to learn to stand up for themselves! That one was a bit of a bitter lesson for me, and now I watch to make sure that the hand on my shoulder isn&#039;t actually reaching for my back to stab me :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was struck by that example of the man who wrote down his coworkers&#8217; birthdays and their favorite vending snacks, then gave them on their birthdays with a little bow.  That is really something that has frontloaded effort, then very minimal effort day-to-day, with very high impact. And it really is quite thoughtful. I really like that idea.  I wonder how I could go about finding out what people&#8217;s birthdays and favorite vending machine items were without being creepy&#8230;</p>
<p>My second thought is that your ideas are very good ones, but in moderation. Speaking up at most meetings is a good idea &#8211; having to say something at every one, or not being able to shut up makes you look like a narcissist or blowhard.  </p>
<p>And if you&#8217;re not careful, you can be manipulated by your coworkers into being the voice of criticism when they don&#8217;t have the guts or don&#8217;t want to look bad &#8211; and while you&#8217;re only saying what EVERYone else is saying, you end up with the label as a troublemaker or jerk.  I learned this the hard way in grad shool &#8211; I should have known that B-school would be fraught with the kind of people to do sneaky stuff like that. Anyway, I could always be whipped up by hearing everyone complain about something, but not do anything. Turns out I was helping resolve the situation for them, but while they benefited from my speaking up, they left me swinging in the wind looking like a jerk who liked to complain, and pretended they had no problem with the situation.  Nice.  I caught on (slow but not stupid!) finally and learned to shut my mouth, and gosh how weird that people had to learn to stand up for themselves! That one was a bit of a bitter lesson for me, and now I watch to make sure that the hand on my shoulder isn&#8217;t actually reaching for my back to stab me :)</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin@OutOfYourRut</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kevin@OutOfYourRut</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 02:07:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Directly compliment impressive work.&quot;

I&#039;ve used this one very often.  It&#039;s good for everyone, including the person offering the compliment because it breeds instant favor and loyalty from the listener.  

What I&#039;ve found to be effective is offering compliments to people who are somewhere in the middle of the pack as far as production.  A lot of people are sitting in the middle because management isn&#039;t willing or able to outline proper or doable expectations or directions.  A lot of people are floating within an environment of weak or confusing leadership.  

When you compliment such a person, it gives them some direction--some of them may never have heard a compliment from anyone for any number of reasons.  What ever the reason, when a person who normally doesn&#039;t get compliments suddenly gets one, performance usually increases.  

Sometimes managing such a compliment may seem like a stretch, but the outcome usually more than justifies the compliment.  People seem to step up when they&#039;re given a pat on the back.  

It&#039;s a mystery why more managers don&#039;t put this into practice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Directly compliment impressive work.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve used this one very often.  It&#8217;s good for everyone, including the person offering the compliment because it breeds instant favor and loyalty from the listener.  </p>
<p>What I&#8217;ve found to be effective is offering compliments to people who are somewhere in the middle of the pack as far as production.  A lot of people are sitting in the middle because management isn&#8217;t willing or able to outline proper or doable expectations or directions.  A lot of people are floating within an environment of weak or confusing leadership.  </p>
<p>When you compliment such a person, it gives them some direction&#8211;some of them may never have heard a compliment from anyone for any number of reasons.  What ever the reason, when a person who normally doesn&#8217;t get compliments suddenly gets one, performance usually increases.  </p>
<p>Sometimes managing such a compliment may seem like a stretch, but the outcome usually more than justifies the compliment.  People seem to step up when they&#8217;re given a pat on the back.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s a mystery why more managers don&#8217;t put this into practice.</p>
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		<title>By: justin</title>
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		<dc:creator>justin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 01:59:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I noticed you took the post down on October 1st about car buying choices. Couldn&#039;t keep up with changing amounts of miles you said you were gonna drive the Prius?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I noticed you took the post down on October 1st about car buying choices. Couldn&#8217;t keep up with changing amounts of miles you said you were gonna drive the Prius?</p>
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		<title>By: steve</title>
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		<dc:creator>steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 01:03:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Many times people who are dreamers or thinkers by nature can have uneven performance, because they tend to let themselves be drawn into various thoughts and ideas that might be related to what they are doing, but not immediately relevant to what is going on.  This allows them to have insight into alternate ways to do things that may be beneficial (looking at alternatives to current reality is one type of dreaming). 

I tend to behave this way myself. Lately I have developed the ability to be &quot;on task&quot; more though so my overall performance is better.

Routine type workers (what my coworker calls &quot;worker bees&quot; which is not a disparagement as she refers to herself this way) are extremely valuable in any organization and do the bulk of the actual operations work.  It&#039;s good to have some dreamers on board too to help deal with changing conditions or alternative possibilities for, perhaps, redesigning the routine.  Of course in most organizations, &quot;dreamers&quot; do a lot of worker bee stuff too because 95% or mor of most work *is* worker bee stuff.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many times people who are dreamers or thinkers by nature can have uneven performance, because they tend to let themselves be drawn into various thoughts and ideas that might be related to what they are doing, but not immediately relevant to what is going on.  This allows them to have insight into alternate ways to do things that may be beneficial (looking at alternatives to current reality is one type of dreaming). </p>
<p>I tend to behave this way myself. Lately I have developed the ability to be &#8220;on task&#8221; more though so my overall performance is better.</p>
<p>Routine type workers (what my coworker calls &#8220;worker bees&#8221; which is not a disparagement as she refers to herself this way) are extremely valuable in any organization and do the bulk of the actual operations work.  It&#8217;s good to have some dreamers on board too to help deal with changing conditions or alternative possibilities for, perhaps, redesigning the routine.  Of course in most organizations, &#8220;dreamers&#8221; do a lot of worker bee stuff too because 95% or mor of most work *is* worker bee stuff.</p>
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		<title>By: Johanna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Johanna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 22:18:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Have you stayed in touch with your mentor enough to find out how that personnel decision is working out for him/her?  Are the &quot;flashes of brilliance&quot; really enough to compensate for that employee&#039;s poorer overall performance?  

Also, not all of these suggestions would work in every workplace.  My coworkers, for example, are not too timid to volunteer for tasks they are interested in.  When there&#039;s a task that nobody volunteers for, 99% of the time it&#039;s because really, truly, nobody wants to do it, because everybody recognizes that it&#039;s going to be tedious and unpleasant, with relatively little glory at the end.  If I volunteered to take on all these tasks, I&#039;d get a reputation not as a leader, but as a doormat.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you stayed in touch with your mentor enough to find out how that personnel decision is working out for him/her?  Are the &#8220;flashes of brilliance&#8221; really enough to compensate for that employee&#8217;s poorer overall performance?  </p>
<p>Also, not all of these suggestions would work in every workplace.  My coworkers, for example, are not too timid to volunteer for tasks they are interested in.  When there&#8217;s a task that nobody volunteers for, 99% of the time it&#8217;s because really, truly, nobody wants to do it, because everybody recognizes that it&#8217;s going to be tedious and unpleasant, with relatively little glory at the end.  If I volunteered to take on all these tasks, I&#8217;d get a reputation not as a leader, but as a doormat.</p>
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		<title>By: John DeFlumeri Jr</title>
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		<dc:creator>John DeFlumeri Jr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:52:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Followers easily replaceable, leaders are not.  So So true!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Followers easily replaceable, leaders are not.  So So true!</p>
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		<title>By: Susan D.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:51:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>None of these qualities is exclusive to a leader--a good follower usually has them too, or the leader wouldn&#039;t be able to be effective. 

@Stephan F--you criticize your fellow committee members for their lack of action or reluctance to give feedback, but have you considered what you may be doing that could elicit that kind of response, or lack of it?  Pushing and prodding can be easily interpreted as bullying, and that doesn&#039;t encourage cooperation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>None of these qualities is exclusive to a leader&#8211;a good follower usually has them too, or the leader wouldn&#8217;t be able to be effective. </p>
<p>@Stephan F&#8211;you criticize your fellow committee members for their lack of action or reluctance to give feedback, but have you considered what you may be doing that could elicit that kind of response, or lack of it?  Pushing and prodding can be easily interpreted as bullying, and that doesn&#8217;t encourage cooperation.</p>
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		<title>By: Stephan F-</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephan F-</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:16:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What is driving me nuts right now is one of the committees I am on, I seem to be about the only one that pushes for any kind of closure on a topic. I have just been doing it for them and giving them what they need so they can do the stuff with their people. Getting any kind of action from them or even feedback is like pulling teeth. I hope something good happens from all this but I am not seeing anything happening at all. Crazy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What is driving me nuts right now is one of the committees I am on, I seem to be about the only one that pushes for any kind of closure on a topic. I have just been doing it for them and giving them what they need so they can do the stuff with their people. Getting any kind of action from them or even feedback is like pulling teeth. I hope something good happens from all this but I am not seeing anything happening at all. Crazy.</p>
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