Reader Mailbag: A Holiday Week

What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Friendship and money
2. Home sale and mortgage question
3. Multiple savings accounts
4. Used car question
5. Refinancing conundrum
6. Fast elimination of student loans
7. House cleaning system
8. Affordable car payment question
9. Roth IRA for young children
10. Save now or later?

Since most of you will be enjoying family time this Thursday (as will I), there won’t be a Thursday mailbag this week. Instead, the mailbag will return next Monday at its regularly scheduled time.

Q1: Friendship and money
My roommate is a dentist and the exact opposite way with money. She takes care of the cable/Internet bill (while I do the electricity and gas), but never tells me the amount. When she buys something for me (expensive hair gel for instance), she won’t tell me how much it is, but when I pester her, she asks me to “look it up and transfer the money to her bank account.” I don’t want to take advantage of her, so I do that. Would it be too patronizing to start a “retirement fund” for her with the money I owe her? I’m not sure exactly how it would work – likely just open a checking account and then when we stop living together transfer everything to her and beg her to either put it towards her student loans or open a Roth IRA. Or should I just continue to transfer the money each month to her and watch her waste it?

- Jenna

If your roommate is doing things in a way that’s comfortable for her, respond by doing things in a way that’s comfortable to you. Which route feels better to you?

In your case, based on what you’ve said, I’d probably put all that money into an account and quietly hold onto it until the right moment, like when your friend needs a financial boost for something big in their life or something like that.

Clearly, your friend does not think of this as any sort of big deal, so don’t treat it as such. Do your own thing quietly and if an opportunity comes around for payback, jump on board then.

Q2: Home sale and mortgage question
I am currently in the process of selling my home (about $150k left on the mortgage) and am planning on renting for a few years. I have no debt, emergency and car fund and an additional $40k in a high interest savings account. I do not plan on using this savings until after I sell my home and can get a plan together for the equity in the home and $40k savings. In the meantime, what benefit would I have in using the entire $40k to pay down my mortgage (effectively giving me a 4.5% return) until I sell my house? Are there downfalls to this plan?

- Lawrence

If you already have an emergency fund and a car fund, then this is a pretty good method for getting you a short-term 4.5% annual return on your money.

There aren’t really any significant drawbacks to it. It’s basically a way to lock in a better return in the short term for that money than you’re getting in a savings account.

The only problem I can see is that it makes that money pretty illiquid for a short period, but if you still have an emergency fund, that’s not really a significant problem. I’d go for it.

Q3: Multiple savings accounts
First, some background: I’m 26, I have one full-time job, and one part-time job working as an organist for a little church. I’ve made a bit of a mess of my finances to the tune of $6000 of credit card debt, $29,000 in student loans, and $3000 of a car loan. Right now I’m in the process of reading/going through Dave Ramsey’s Total Money Makeover. Currently, I’m on the first step, which is working on saving up an emergency fund. I’ve budgeted for November and December, and I will have it saved by Jan. 1. I understand I’m supposed to put this ‘rainy day fund’ in its own account and not look at it, which is where my question starts.

My savings currently fall into three categories: saving for taxes (because my organist job doesn’t withold anything), my $1000 emergency fund, and saving for various sundry expenses (just $25/week until I have my debt paid off, but I want to have something set aside for car repairs and other expenses that doesn’t come up frequently enough to justify a monthly budget line item). Should I have different savings accounts for these three categories? Right now I’m keeping an Excel spreadsheet of what money I have saved for what purpose all in one savings account, which is a bit of a pain, but I’m not sure if it’d be easier or just ridiculous to have three savings accounts. Should I put my rainy day money in a CD or money market account? Will that make it too difficult to take out cash in case an emergency actually happens? I would greatly appreciate any advice you could give.
- Shawn

There’s really no problem with having three savings accounts. In fact, some banks (like ING Direct, the bank I use) make it quite easy to do so.

A money market account mostly functions like a savings account. They traditionally have had a pretty solid rate of interest, but they’re just as depressed as savings accounts are right now, so you’re not getting a big advantage from using them.

I would not lock your money down in a CD, as this would make your money inaccessible without giving you much of a boost, either.

Q4: Used car question
I have a question regarding automobile purchasing. I was recently involved in an auto accident and my car – originally bought brand new and maintained like a gem by my father – was totaled. I just got back from working overseas and have about 7K in savings. I don’t have a full-time job yet but I have two part-time jobs which I expect will pull in about $1,600/month if I’m lucky (it’s hard to say because one depends on tips) and I have college loans at about $300 a month and some other small bills. I will be getting about $3,500 from the insurance company to replace my car, which was a 1998 Nissan.

My dilemma now is this: I definitely know I can’t afford to lease a new car with a semi-unstable job situation, and I don’t want a new one anyway since there’s always going to be this possibility of some idiot running a stop sign again and ruining it. I can either buy an older make used for around what I’m getting from the insurance company, or I can dip into my savings and get something slightly newer, like a 2003.

What would you suggest? Do I shell out the extra money for a slightly better car and make the dive into my savings, or do I just go with what I have and get an older one? I also have the option of financing a newer one, but as I said, am not sure if I could make the payments every month without feeling squeezed (not to mention that’s extra for interest).
- Rhonda

Your last sentence tells the story. You can’t afford an expensive car right now, so get the best car you can afford with the cash you’ve got.

The key thing to remember is that you’re not going to be in this situation permanently (at least not if you’re willing to work hard for something better). This car you’re buying is to get you through to the point where you’re in a better state, at which point you can move to a more reliable car.

Never buy a car that’s beyond your means once you’ve reached a basic level of reliability with what you’re looking at.

Q5: Refinancing conundrum
My husband and I purchased a house in March 2008 for 200,000 (30 year mortgage, 5.875% interest rate). We currently owe $170,000 on it. We would like to refinance right now, but we need your advice whether this is the best thing for us to do financially right now. We shopped around for rates and the best deal we found is going through a mortgage broker in our town. He is quoting us 3.875% based on high credit scores, which we both have (closing costs would run around $1500). We had 3 different realtors run comparables on our house, and using this as an estimate, the broker believes our house will only appraise for $189,000 (max) right now because of the housing situation in our area. WE are currently paying private mortgage insurance (PMI) since we did not have the 20% down payment when we initially purchased the house. If we refinanced right now, using the 189k appraisal as an example, we’d only have 10% equity in our house, meaning we’d still have to pay for PMI again. Is this worth it? Or should we pay extra on our mortgage each month to effectively give us a lower interest rate?

- Lilith

It depends entirely on how much longer you’d be living in the house.

Let’s run the numbers. Your current payment is about $1,189.08 per month. If you refinanced, your payment would be about $799.40. To make back the closing costs, you’d have to make payments for about four months. Of course, you’ve also tacked on about four extra years of payments onto your mortgage, but if you continued making payments at your original $1,189.08 rate, you’d eliminate all of those extra payments in about eighteen months.

In other words, if you’re going to live in the house for more than two years beyond the refinancing, it’s worthwhile. The PMI is a moot point, of course, but you’re likely to get below that PMI level faster if you refinance and continue making payments of the size of the original mortgage payments.

Q6: Fast elimination of student loans
After three years of temping and waitressing, I just got my first full time job out of graduate school. During those first three years my student loans were in deferment (on account of not being employed full time and the employment I did have was sporadic), but now I’m ready to get rid of them as soon as possible.

Here’s the deal: The total is $43,000. The website where I make my payment shows all my individual loans (amounts ranging from $4,000 to $12,000) and I can chose to pay as much as I like over the minimum payment on each one. Each loan is a Stafford loan at a fixed rate of 6.8% and I have not consolidated. I’m of the mind that I should throw as much money as possible to the smaller loans to get those out of the way, because they will be the easiest to pay off and then I’ll focus on the bigger ones. But, by not paying off the larger balances faster I know I’m racking up interest.

Is there a better way to approach things or some ideas I haven’t thought of? I’ve read some nightmare stories about consolidating and interest that piles on and just won’t quit.
- Betty

If they all have the same fixed rate, it doesn’t matter which order you pay them off in in terms of the overall amount you owe.

Paying off the small ones first does make your minimum monthly payment smaller, which can free your money for other purposes if needed. It gives you flexibility. However, that flexibility can also mean that you end up not contributing as much each month to your debts as you might otherwise be doing, stretching out your loans and causing you to actually owe more than before (because you’re not making extra payments).

Your best bet is to simply say “I’m going to pay $X per month towards my student loans,” where X is some amount greater than the total minimum payments. Always make the extra payment toward the one with the lowest balance. Ignore any changes in minimum payments because of loan payoffs until they’re all gone.

You may also want to investigate refinancing options, as that can potentially help with the interest rates.

Q7: House cleaning system
I would like to know about your system for regular house cleaning (cleaning kitchen countertops, stove, sink, microwave; cleaning bathroom sink, tub/shower, toilet; vacuuming or mopping floors; dusting; changing bedsheets and bathroom towels). How often do you do each of these chores? Do you do them all in one block of time or spread them out over the week? How do you divide them up with your wife (and kids)? How do you keep track of what has been done or needs to be done? Do you ever choose to hire a professional cleaner, and if so, when and why?

I realize that these things will vary from family to family, but I would like to know how you do it as a starting point and because I appreciate your value system.
- Carly

We tend to clean by triage, honestly. Cleaning up in the wake of a six year old, a four year old, and a one year old is a real challenge.

We tend to do most of our cleaning in one block once a week, split across Friday evening and Saturday morning. Aside from that, we just use a triage method for handling disasters.

We’ve considered hiring a professional cleaner, but we’ve honestly never been able to justify the cost to ourselves.

Q8: Affordable car payment question
I’m a first year doctoral student who has already spent a decent number of years living the grad school lifestyle. I have a rather large amount of debt hanging over me right now; my credit card debt is at about $4,000 and my student loans are at about $35,000 (although I won’t have to “worry” about that one until I leave school in 2016). The biggest worry currently, however, is paying for a car with my meager monthly stipend.

I make about $1150 per month from my work as a graduate assistant. My rent is $387 and my utilities usually run that up to about $450. I do qualify for EBT/food stamps and utilize the $200 per month I receive from that. My biggest “non-essential” payment, however, is the $240 I pay for my 2011 Kia Soul. (Add about $60 per month for insurance; thankfully, I do not have to pay for my own gas–yet.)

I’ve made some bad decisions with cars. I was gifted a new car in 2004 but sold it in 2008 when I got a job; I desperately wanted the newest and fastest Ford had to offer, and I paid for that ($275/month, to be exact). I traded this in in 2010 for a Honda lease because I wanted the lower monthly payment and wasn’t too worried about the lack of equity. Because I now live rather far from my parents’ home, however, I had to trade the lease in for my current car in May ’11. I refinanced Kia’s 3.99 rate (60 months) through USAA for 3.65. I added gap coverage for $600 then but just had it refunded when I realized how much that truly was.

Essentially, I’m looking at a payment that is over 25% of my monthly income until just after I graduate. I don’t know if there are other options, especially when decent used cars are still pretty expensive today. I have pursued additional work, but the extra income won’t appear until the spring and will still be few and far between–and about an additional $1k per month (teaching college courses). Any suggestions?
- Ernie

It is almost impossible to turn around a new car. As soon as you drive it off the lot, you’re underwater on that loan unless you had a sizeable down payment. At this point, base don what you described, it sounds like you owe substantially more than it’s worth.

If that’s the case, you’re basically stuck with the car unless you literally just go to the dealership, toss them the keys, and then take a devastating hit on your credit report. You’ve already explored refinancing, so that’s not a further option. You’re really not going to find a much lower rate than you’ve got.

Your best bet? Just sit tight, make it through this, and then drive the car for a long time. Don’t replace it because of the siren song of a new car. You’ve got to resist such temptations or they will haunt your entire life.

Q9: Roth IRA for young children
My wife and I are expecting our first children this year (twins) and I was considering starting a Roth IRA for each child now while they are very young. I was thinking I could contribute something like $10 a paycheck.

Is this legal? Does it make sense? Do more parents do this? Any reasons not to?
- Eric

Roth IRA contributions are limited by the income you earn from working. Thus, unless your children are out there earning a wage, they can’t have a Roth IRA.

If you want to save $10 a check for them, your best approach is to open a 529 college savings plan for them. This type of investment has strong tax benefits for education for them as they grow older. Even if they don’t go to college right after school, the odds are very high that they’ll take on some type of postsecondary education, and the account will be there for them if they do so.

Don’t sweat the exact investment too much. It’s far more important that you start saving now and worry about the investment specifics later. One missed payment can do more damage than an imperfect investment selection.

Q10: Save now or later?
I am currently in my second year in college and I have been saving money from my part-time job at McDonald’s ever since I graduate high school in 2010. I am currently trying to save as much money as I can so when I graduate from college I will have good amount of money to pay off that debt and also help my parent to pay for my little brother’s college tuition. So far, with one and half year of effort, I managed to save up to about $6,000. I took the Federal Subsidized-Loan so I know how much money they will lend to me through-out my four years in school, which will be about $20,000 total.

I will have better chance to get a job right after college if I have some internship experience during my college years (especially with my major, Industrial Design). So right now I am trying hard to get ready to find an internship and hopefully I will find one by next summer. However, my problem is that if I do find an internship, I will have to quit my job. And if I quit my job, I won’t be able to save money anymore and I will not able to make close to $20,000 after I graduate. I would say my internship experience will be much important to me rather than keeping my current job so I know once I found it I will quit my job. Therefore, I am thinking I should start doing some investment with my current money to earn some interest right now. I want to ask you what kind of investment should I look into that is best fit for my age (I am currently 20). My parent told me I should put into CD account and let it roll but with our current economy, I don’t think that is the best option. Also I would like start saving for retirement like you said, but I really don’t know how right now. Could you please give me some suggestion or advices on what’s the best action I should take with my current situation?
- Millie

A CD has traditionally been a great choice for investing in this situation, but we live in strange economic times where CD rates are just terrible. You can barely earn more in a CD today than you can in a savings account, so there’s little motivation to lock up your money in a CD.

If you want to start saving for retirement, your best method is to sign up for a Roth IRA account. I have one, through Vanguard (just type it into Google). You can set it up so that a small amount goes into that account from your checking account automatically each month.

The advantage of a Roth IRA is that if a desperate situation sets in, you can withdraw the amount you contributed to the Roth without penalty.

Got any questions? Email them to me or leave them in the comments and I’ll attempt to answer them in a future mailbag (which, by way of full disclosure, may also get re-posted on other websites that pick up my blog). However, I do receive hundreds of questions per week, so I may not necessarily be able to answer yours.

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26 thoughts on “Reader Mailbag: A Holiday Week

  1. Tom says:

    Q5, if you put 10% down the first time you purchased the house (just a guess based on how much you owe now vs. the mortgage), and assuming PMI goes away when you have 20% equity, you’d be free of PMI at about month 60 of the loan (sometime in 2013). With the refi, you’ll have PMI until month 49 (About 2016), so by refinancing, you’re probably going to pay PMI a couple more years. You probably know that the PMI is currently tax deductible, and your payment is going to go down about $300 per month, so I say do it. If you have no other productive use for the savings, throw it at the mortgage and accelerate the time that it takes the PMI disappears.

  2. Tom says:

    “You may also want to investigate refinancing options, as that can potentially help with the interest rates.”
    No such thing exists for student loans, and if they’re all fixed rate from the same lender, ie, you send one payment for the entire loan, consolidation doesn’t do anything for you. But it’s a good idea to get rid of that debt. Student Loans have little to no consumer protection and 6.8% is ridiculously high rate in today’s environment (private loans are even worse). You’re a victim of bad timing because prior to 2006-07, Stafford loans were variable rates and currently below 3% (Of course in 2005, who knew we’d be at historic lows for interest rates, 6.8 was a good deal back then)

  3. Johanna says:

    Q1: How do you know your roommate isn’t saving for retirement, isn’t paying (enough?) on her student loans, and is wasting her money? It looks like Trent edited your question, so maybe you said something about this and he cut it out, but from what I see here, it looks like your roommate is trying to keep her money matters private, so maybe you should question whether you know as much about her situation as you think you do.

  4. Katie says:

    I’m with Johanna; isn’t dentistry really well-paying, even for young, entering members of the profession?

  5. Riki says:

    Q2 Lawrence:

    There are a couple of things to consider: Is there a penalty for making such a large lump sum payment on your mortgage? Rules vary so you need to look into what your mortgage agreement allows in terms of such a large lump payment.

    Also, is your house currently on the market? How quickly is it likely to sell? If we’re only talking a couple of months, you should run the calculation to see how much of a return (in actual dollars) you’ll get on your money. It may or may not be worth it, especially considering how locked in your money becomes when you prepay your mortgage.

  6. valleycat1 says:

    Q1 – To answer your question, yes, it is too patronizing to be setting the money aside to give her a lump sum when you go separate ways. If you don’t want to do the transfers to her account, then set the money aside in an account of your own, so if/when she decides you owe her, you’ll be able to pay her. Better yet, talk with her to see if you can work out a different way to be handling joint bills/expenses. If she’s comfortable with the status quo and you don’t mind doing all the work (figuring out the amount & making the transfer), then leave things the way they are.

    Two questions – how much can a cable/internet bill vary each month – why would you have to ask how much you owe her for that? And does she willingly reimburse you when you tell her her share of the bills you pay?

    And as long as it’s her money she’s spending, you have no business deciding whether she’s ‘wasting’ it or not. She may feel the same about you.

  7. Gretchen says:

    Number one just makes me thankful I no longer have roommates.

    She’s paying the cable and buying you hair gel (how much can that really cost) and you think she needs a retirement fund?
    Makes no sense.

    7: shouldn’t a 6 yo at least partly be able to clean up after himself?
    I tend to do X minutes a day of straigtening, X minutes of cleaning. Roate around the house as needed.
    All laundry on the weekends as it’s when I can hang it out to dry.

  8. Vanessa says:

    Q9 – Advertisers love twins. How about getting the babies some modeling gigs so they can contribute to a Roth?

  9. Adam P says:

    Q1 is weird. Either it was edited to heck by Trent such that it no longer makes sense, or the quest writer isn’t playing with a full deck. I suspect it’s Trent because his quality has been so ship-shod lately.

    The opening sentence doesn’t make any sense:

    “My roommate is a dentist and the exact opposite way with money.”

    The exact opposite way of what? This is a comparison to nothing. The exact opposite way with money to the letter writer? To how a dentist should be? I don’t even understand this at all. Bad editing?

    Anyway, a dentist is a 6 figure profession sooner rather than later. If you’re roomates it’s likely you’ve very young. Retaliating for her buying you hair gel by starting a retirement fund is hugely weird. This is a really strange question.

    For the question writer, let it go. Thank your roomie when she buys you things and insist it’s not necessary. Buy things for her that she will use/like when you and if it feels appropriate. Stop any thought of starting a retirement fund for her. That’s SO not your business and frankly, a dentist doesn’t need help from outsiders, if a dentist is having problems with spending/saving it’s gonna be something they learn themselves with maturity and experience. Something that can’t be taught from a well meaning roommate.

  10. Johanna says:

    Q8: Getting a new car every couple of years is not what I usually think of as the “grad school lifestyle.”

    If you can hang in there until the spring, when you can start getting an extra $1000/month, that sounds pretty good. Is there any reason you can’t just do that? Just make sure you don’t squander the $1000/month. It’s OK to take a little and do something fun, but most of it should be going toward your car loan and your credit cards.

    If you’re looking for more immediate income, have you tried tutoring? If you’re in grad school, you must be someplace with a lot of undergrads, who probably have final exams coming up. There are always some of them (and their parents) who are worried enough that they’re willing to pay top dollar for anyone who promises to help.

  11. Adam P says:

    Q10 – in your shoes, I would put the $6k in a high interest savings account (ING etc) and keep it for an emergency fund. Don’t think about retirement savings until you start your first real job after university is over, but when you do sign up for the biggest % deduction you can possibly make do with and still have a liveable life (10-20% of gross pay if possible). Pay off your student loans (low interest, tax deductions) over a long period such that you have decent cash flow. A $20k student loan is manageable on just about any real job.

    I’d ignore Trent’s advice on a Roth IRA for now, I think you’re going to need that $6k before retirement when you’re just starting your real life as an adult past university, esp if you’re only 19 years old right now.

  12. Carole says:

    I wonder if #1 is from another country. Her English usage is a little different, also in some countries such as Russia, I’v heard their medical professionals aren’t paid as well as they are here.

  13. jim says:

    Q1 : NO you don’t need to setup a savings account for your roommate. She’s an adult. If she’s a dentist she is likely doing fine financially.

    Q5 : If you go from 5.875 to 3.875 then you’ll cut 2% off your interest. On a $170k balance thats an annual savings of $3400. Closing costs you $1500. Yes you should refinance.

    Q8 : Doctoral student on food stamps with a new car. Sigh. You can’t afford that car. I say that cause you’re on food stamps which is for people who can’t afford to feed themselves. If you can’t afford food such that you need a government handout to feed yourself then you can’t afford a new car. Sell the new car now and eat the loss. Take the bus.

  14. jim says:

    Q10: Yes that internship experience is much more valuale than keeping a minimum wage level job. Definitely pursue the internship route. It is a lot more beneficial to ahve that on your resume when you go looking for real jobs after graduation. For the money you’re saving now I’d put it in a CD for now. You said your goal for the money is to pay off debt and help pay a siblings college. You graduate in around 3 years which is a short term period and you want your money safe till then. Investing in stocks for 3 years faces a high chance of losing money. Your savings goal is short term so your best in a safe bank CD.

  15. jim says:

    Maybe the cable / internet bill varies cause they get pay per view movies via cable? Or maybe the room mate just never told her the cost of the bill for some reason.

  16. Suzanne says:

    Q10 – I wondered if you truly need to quit the McDonald’s job? If you have been there a long time, maybe they would be willing to work with your schedule. I quit my waitressing job the first second I got a “real” job (even though it paid little) and have regretted it ever since. Pretty sure that put me in some serious debt. Even if I had worked there one day a week, it would have helped my money situation and wouldn’t have overwhelmed me, responsibility wise. Obviously, everyone is different, but it’s something to consider.

  17. valleycat1 says:

    Q4 – Since your income is low & somewhat uncertain at this point, you’re probably better off buying the best vehicle you can find for the insurance payout, rather than dipping into your savings. You might find that just adding a small portion of your own cash makes all the difference in the quality of used vehicle, but don’t use all your savings or even a significant portion of it for a car, unless you rely on the vehicle for your income & have no alternate transportation options available.

  18. EngineerMom says:

    Q7: Cleaning routines depend heavily on the age of the family members. The younger the kids, in general the more sporadic the routines!

    If you don’t have very young (under 5) children at home, I would recommend checking out flylady.net for some ideas on establishing cleaning routines.

    If you have very young children, decide on a “bare minimum” that must be completed daily and weekly, and save the other stuff for those rare moments when the stars align, everyone naps at the same time and you have energy and daylight! Give yourself a fighting chance by putting basic cleaning supplies in every “wet” room (bathrooms, kitchen, and laundry room), and dusting supplies in every other room.

    I have a 3-year-old and a 4-month-old. Our daily routines:
    1. Empty the dishwasher and drying rack every morning while making breakfast.
    2. Load breakfast and lunch dishes after lunch if I get the chance.
    3. Do “Pick Up Time” with the 3-year-old – clean up all the toys he pulled out in the living room just before he starts getting ready for bed. He does most of the work, with supervision and encouragement.
    4. Load dinner dishes, wash all the handwash stuff (knives, cast iron skillet, large bowls and pots, anything with a wooden handle), wipe down the counters, table, and stove.
    5. Vacuum or sweep the dining room, kitchen, and living room area rugs. We have an ergorapido vacuum and hardwood floors with area rugs. The vacuum is light enough that my 3-year-old can use it, but powerful enough to clean the area rugs.

    The evening dishes and cleaning take the same amount of time that it takes my husband to get our son ready for bed, about 30-40 minutes. Toy clean-up takes 15 minutes or less. Unloading the dishwasher is negligible, since we do it around making breakfast for us and the kids.

    I try to vacuum the bedrooms and other areas of the house weekly, we do laundry on an as-needed basis (usually about twice a week I do 2 or 3 loads), and I dust when it gets thick enough to write in!

  19. Lisa says:

    @Adam P – I think the word is “slipshod” and not “ship-shod.”

    Ironic commentary on quality there…

  20. Jackowick says:

    Q5 #13 Jim is correct; I was in a similar ballpark with purchase time, interest rates, and prices, and I was able to refi one year in (my credit union offered very low closing costs and I had 20% down already in the house) So it would take around 4 years to get my money’s worth, plus I am able to overpay the mortgage now against principal with the same value as my original mortgage.

    The biggie is time. I said I need to make this commitment to my job, the area, the house, and just about everything for 5+ years to get a deep benefit from the refi. Q5 doesn’t mention kids, but given the extra spending from having kids as well as lifestyle and space changes, just make sure you’ve literally reviewed everything you plan on doing for the next 5 years in making your decision.

  21. Marta says:

    Sell used car or not…

    I own a 2000 saturn wagon that just went over 100k miles. In the two years I’ve owned it its had 3 major leaks, originally it was oil and coolant leaks, 2nd time coolant, now oil… I’m sick of this car’s issues. At this point we cannot replace the car or afford to fix it if its more then $100.

    I’m wondering if I should even bother to fix the car and just sell it as is. We have some consumer debt that I’d like to reduce and this would help. Also we would save some insurance money each month. Due to this car’s repeated issues my husband and I have learned how to survive as a one car family, so I don’t NEED it – however it is nice to have the freedom to run to the store if I need to.

    What worries me about selling it is that my husband’s car, though newer, 2005, has the same amount of miles and is smaller. He has a small car payment on it. If something happens to his car we’d really be in a pickle. Would it make more sense to hang on to my car (even unfixed), or bank the cash from it for emergencies, or use it to pay off consumer debt? (emergency fund is mostly depleted at this point).

    My husband is 9 months away from completing his residency, his new job will allow us to make enough money to purchase a reliable used car for me, so all of this is a temporary situation. Money is just very tight and I want to spend it wisely.

  22. AnnJo says:

    Q9, Eric, you might also look into Coverdell accounts, also called ESAs (Education Savings Accounts) or Education IRAs.

    They work very much the same way as IRAs and 529 accounts – earnings are tax-free like IRAs, the account remains the asset of the parent rather than the child (so it has less negative impact on financial aid) like 529s, you can transfer the balance between beneficiaries like a 529, and expenditures on education are tax-free like 529s.

    BUT you have more investment options than with a 529 – you can invest in stocks, your choice of mutual funds, etc. You are not dependent on your state’s financial solvency or integrity, as you will be with a 529, and unlike a 529, you can spend the money on pre-college education expenses, like private K-12 schooling, tutoring or the purchase of a computer.

    The limit to annual contributions to a Coverdell ESA is $2,000 per beneficiary. Any earnings in the Coverdell that are unused when the beneficiary reaches 30 years must be transferred to another qualifying beneficiary or will be subject to tax like a premature IRA withdrawal (tax on the previously untaxed earnings plus a 10% excise tax penalty.)

    State-run 529 plans usually guarantee that the unit you purchase today will pay for the equivalent amount of tuition at the time the child reaches college age. (In my state, if current annual tuition is $10,000 per year, today’s unit price will be $100, but one unit will pay for 1/100th of the annual tuition in 2026, whatever that might be, so if tuition then is $25,000 a year, a unit will be worth $250.)

    In recent years, state-run 529s have been a far better return than the stock market could provide, because college tuition rates have skyrocketed – at an unsustainable rate. So almost by definition that will not continue in the future as it has in the past.

    Uniform Trusts for Minors Act accounts are another option, but have their own quirks that you need to explore if you are interested.

  23. Tizzle says:

    @1 — I agree that the question is a little confusing, but I have a couple thoughts that may pertain.

    If your friend is paying more than her share, and you feel guilty about it, one option is to pay it forward – by which I mean give to others. I’m talking purely on the level of drink-buying, or hairgel-purchasing, here (not car payments). If one of your friends can afford and insists on paying for you all the time, then pay for the drinks of your friend who is just a barista making nearly min wage. Or cook them an expensive dinner once a month. Buy them a present they won’t be able to refuse (expensive champagne on a birthday works).

    If there’s a variance in the bills and one of the roommates can’t handle talking about money at all, then overestimate one month, underestimate the next. Balance as much as you can in your head, and let the details go. Clean the house more often if they pay more of the bills. Pet sit for them.

    I am actually using examples from my life. I got stories, but I won’t clutter this blog with ‘em. :)

  24. Tom says:

    Marta, sell the station wagon. It already sounds like you’re pretty sure that’s what you want to do. I say sell it for 3 reasons: you’re already used to the 1 car lifestyle, you’ll get a bit more cashflow from decreased insurance premium rates, and you’re expecting more income in 9 months. I don’t know how much you can realistically expect to receive from an 11-year old wagon with maintenance issues, which you should disclose btw, but every little bit helps!

    (We had a 93 Taurus wagon until April 2010, and I do miss the space it provided. Now, if you want a wagon, it seems like you have to get a Volvo or similar highend makes.)

  25. Wendy says:

    Q8 says…”I make about $1150 per month from my work as a graduate assistant. My rent is $387 and my utilities usually run that up to about $450. I do qualify for EBT/food stamps and utilize the $200 per month I receive from that.”

    This made me cry. I wrote to Trent once about our situation. My husband is blind and has a traumatic brain injury. I have several medical issues like lupus, rheumatoid arthritis and myasthenia gravis and require lots of medical care and am on oxygen. We get $1090/month SSI disability and $92/month food stamps. That’s for BOTH of us TOGETHER. Rent is $284 plus utilities. We just bought an $800 vehicle. Life is incredibly difficult financially. We never have money left for food by the end of the month. I grew a 3000 sq ft raised bed garden this year, which sure helped. Why does this grad student get so much more money and help than we do as a disabled couple? Yup, I’m depressed….

  26. jim says:

    Wendy, I read that work study income for students is not counted as income when figuring food stamp benefits. So if their graduate assistant income is considered work study then that might explain why they get so much. OTherwise I can’t figure why Ernie would get much of any food stamp benefit.

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