Each week, I highlight ten things each week that inspired me to greater financial, personal, and professional success. Hopefully, they will inspire you as well.
1. Me and Grandma
Over the holidays, I was going through some old photographs and I came across this one of me and my great grandmother, taken a few days before Christmas 1998.
She was very old and frail at that point, but still stubbornly independent, quick-witted, and insistent on living on her own. For Christmas that year, we brought her several boxes of prepared and easy-to-prepare food items and other things that would make her continued independent living easier.
There are a handful of people in my life that I have missed greatly since they’ve passed away. She’s very high on that list.
2. Bon Iver’s Beth/Rest
This is my favorite new song of 2011.
There’s just something about it that hits me right here in the chest.
3. Mark Twain on reading
I believe one of the best gifts I can give to my children is the gift of the joy of reading.
“A person who won’t read has no advantage over one who can’t read.” – Mark Twain
Reading is about the acquisition of knowledge, the growth of one’s morals and values, and the enjoyment of a vast literary heritage. There are few things more valuable to do with one’s time.
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This is one of those things where there’s the kernel of something great and you can just see the potential for this to turn into an essential tool.
5. A happy toddler
I love browsing old public domain photographs. Every once in a while, one pops up that makes me feel more human.
The above picture was taken in approximately 1900. The look of impishness on the boy’s face reminded me greatly of the looks that my one year old son often gives me when he’s toddling around the house and has come up with some idea that will surely cause a mess. Some things never really change.
6. Thoreau on finishing things
The difference between people who succeed and those who fail is the ability to consistently finish, particularly at the important things.
“All endeavor calls for the ability to tramp the last mile, shape the last plan, endure the last hours toil. The fight to the finish spirit is the one… characteristic we must posses if we are to face the future as finishers.” – Henry David Thoreau
Do we want to get things done or leave things half-undone?
7. Billie Holiday singing It Had to Be You
Billie Holiday is one of my favorite singers ever. She just grabs those notes and turns them into something magical.
I hope there’s an afterlife so that I can someday sit down and listen to and watch this amazing woman sing.
8. Wozniak on goals and success
Over and over again, I find the people who succeed at things aren’t the people looking for the financial success. They’re just looking to do something well because they love it, and when they achieve that good thing, the world beats a path to their door.
“My goal wasn’t to make a ton of money. It was to build good computers.” – Steve Wozniak
There are variations on this quote in every field. I find it is even true for me.
9. Charlie Chaplin’s speech in The Great Dictator (1936)
A friend of mine passed this along to me recently, asking me to watch it and think about it.
Regardless of how you feel about the idea behind it, it’s powerfully delivered and thought-provoking.
10. Condolence by Dorothy Parker
Funerals bother me a great deal. I’m troubled by how people often show up and act incredibly distraught about someone that they didn’t have time for when they were alive. I often wonder what the people who passed on would think about all of it.
They hurried here, as soon as you had died,
Their faces damp with haste and sympathy,
And pressed my hand in theirs, and smoothed my knee,
And clicked their tongues, and watched me, mournful-eyed.
Gently they told me of that Other Side-
How, even then, you waited there for me,
And what ecstatic meeting ours would be.
Moved by the lovely tale, they broke, and cried.
And when I smiled, they told me I was brave,
And they rejoiced that I was comforted,
And left to tell of all the help they gave.
But I had smiled to think how you, the dead,
So curiously preoccupied and grave,
Would laugh, could you have heard the things they said.
I hope that when my time comes, people tell a lot of good jokes and funny, happy stories about things I did.